Living In Portugal and the Portuguese Culture

An examination of the most important cultures and traditions for expats to understand when they are living in Portugal

Portugal is a very intriguing destination for would be expatriates.  Its beautiful landscapes, incredible weather in many locations and warm, welcoming people all make this country appeal to those seeking a different pace of living.  If you’re considering living in Portugal, there are things about the Portuguese culture that you need to know.

In this article we’ll explore Portuguese traditions because when the cultural quirks are understood and respected, many expats find themselves right at home living in Portugal.  Some of the things you need to know if moving to live in Portugal include:

Formalities. The Portuguese culture is warm and welcoming, but the people do tend to extend a rather formal front at first.  Do use formal titles when meeting people, such as “senhor” and “senhora.” Once relations have gone beyond formalities, expect men to greet with hugs and handshakes and women to kiss on the cheeks.  To make sure boundaries are not crossed on your part, wait until you are invited to do so to drop formal titles and greeting protocol.

Appearances.  This especially applies in the cities, but do consider your appearances before going out to meet new people.  Very similar to Italians, the Portuguese will size you up based on appearance.  Neat, tidy and well dressed will send the right message.

Family.  This is extremely important to the Portuguese.  They tend to embrace the extended family and very often maintain extremely close ties.  Nepotism is a way of life within Portugal!!

Giving gifts.  This is a normal and welcomed part of Portuguese society.  During the holidays and especially if invited to a home, expect to bring a gift.  For the hostess, flowers, candy or chocolates are very welcome.  Avoid red flowers and those used in funerals – such as lilies.  Do not bring wine to a Portuguese home unless you are very certain of the type the host and hostess prefer.

Dining.  This is very delightful experience for expats!  If you have been invited to a dinner, try to be as punctual as possible.  It is okay to be a little late to parties or big events, however.  Conservative dress is fine for most settings, but make certain not to talk about business at all during a social gathering.  Expect formal table manners to matter and do bring a gift for the hostess.  If you forget, send one the next day!  Do not start eating until everyone else does or a signal is given from the hostess.

The Portuguese have a reputation for being very warm and for welcoming people.  Most expats living in Portugal find that even with the language barrier they feel right at home quite quickly.  If you take the time to learn more about the culture and what is expected in social situations, you are even more likely to be embraced by your new neighbours.  If you are unsure of how to act, wait for cues from others or just simply ask if an English speaker is present!