Living in Italy and Customs to Know About

Living among the historic sites, beautiful waters, rolling hills and sprawling vineyards and orchards of Italy sounds picture postcard perfect - but what about living among the Italian people?  What do British expatriates need to know to survive and thrive in Italy?

In this article we’ll take a look at living in Italy and the customs to know about, we’ll also talk about some things British expats can do to help themselves feel more at home in Italy.  With an estimated 3.5 million British trips to Italy each year there’s no doubt Brits will run into more than a few of their own countrymen along the way, but when getting to know the Italians is what’s desired, knowing about the customs and culture in Italy comes in handy.

Some of the things expats need to know include: -

The language.  Whilst many Italians do speak English or French this is not always the case and additionally, to add even more confusion, learning Italian is sometimes not enough; Italy is home to a number of regional dialects that can be quite different.  Understanding the region you want to settle in and the dialect spoken can help immensely.  For example, the people in Alghero tend to prefer Catalan.  Take the time to learn at least the basic dialect and common phrases to help with fitting in.

Importance of family.  Italian life revolves around the family.  In the north of the nation traditional family units tend to cohabit, but wherever you are in Italy, families remain tightly connected.  In the southern regions it is not at all uncommon to find extended families living together in a solid unit so do not underestimate the importance of family or the tightness of its bond.

First impressions matter.  Italians tend to size people up based on first appearances.  The way people dress and act on first meeting can stick with them for a long time to come.  Keep this in mind when going out and about in hopes of meeting new people.

Religion.  Catholicism is an important part of the Italian lifestyle for many.  Although many Italians might not attend church they often name their children after saints, keep crosses in their homes and offices and celebrate religious holidays with diligence.

House guest etiquette.  If you’re invited to an Italian home there are a few things you need to know.  First off, don’t bring the hostess chrysanthemums – they’re funeral flowers in Italy.  Also, arriving fashionably late is, well, fashionable.  Do take care to dress stylishly too!  At dinner do not sit down until invited to do so and let the hostess act first in regard to sitting, eating and leaving the table.

It’s all about who you know.  Fitting into Italian culture involves a careful, patient path.  Italians are more apt to welcome people upon third-party introductions.  They do business, for example, with people they know and trust.  Give it time and exercise patience.

Living in Italy is an experience thousands of Britons already enjoy and if you want to join them, you will find that all in all the Italian people are very welcoming of expatriates, but the nation and its people may take a little time to get used to before you can feel at home in the culture.  The more you learn about the culture and how to fit in, the more likely it is you’ll love the experience.  After all, when in Rome …